The Men’s Connection Project
Boulder Area men’s group
The Men’s Connection Project is an online men’s therapy group serving Boulder and men across Colorado, facilitated by Licensed Professional Counselor D.J. Bishop. This group brings together 6–8 men in a structured, confidential setting to work with the emotional and relational patterns that often keep men feeling disconnected, reactive, or alone.
While the group meets virtually, the work is experiential and relational, offering the depth, cohesion, and accountability of in-person group therapy. Sessions meet biweekly for 90 minutes, with rolling admission until the group reaches capacity. The group is open to men across Colorado.
If you're curious whether this group might be a fit, you’re welcome to reach out to learn more.
Why join a men’s group?
Many men function well on the surface — work gets done, responsibilities are met — yet still feel emotionally shut down, reactive, or disconnected in their closest relationships.
The Men’s Connection Project helps you reconnect with yourself, so that connection with others becomes more available and sustainable — with partners, family, coworkers, and friends.
Many of us carry the impact of trauma, shame, or painful life experiences that shaped how we learned to relate. These experiences can quietly show up as withdrawal, defensiveness, anger, or a persistent feeling that no matter what you do, it’s never enough.
As Brené Brown notes, “We are hardwired for connection.”
When trauma and shame disrupt that connection, men often suffer in isolation.
“The best part about being with a group is that you don’t have to do everything alone. ”
What makes this men’s group different?
This is not a drop-in support group or a discussion group. The Men’s Connection Project is a process-oriented men’s therapy group focused on meaningful change.
In group, we work experientially with:
Emotional reactivity and shutdown
Shame and self-criticism
Repeating relational patterns
Trauma held in the nervous system
Learning how to stay present in connection
Rather than just talking about relationships, you’ll have opportunities to practice new ways of relating in real time, within a safe and contained environment.
What to expect from the men’s therapy group?
The group follows a trauma-informed arc that supports both safety and depth as men work with relational and emotional patterns.
We begin by building trust and identifying strengths, resources, and internal supports.
As the group deepens, we integrate narrative work, sociometry, and experiential group psychotherapy.
Over time, this process supports:
Greater emotional regulation
Increased capacity for vulnerability
Meaning-making and integration
Transforming shame and isolation into connection and belonging
Who is a good fit for this men’s group?
This online men’s therapy group is well-suited for men who:
Feel emotionally isolated or disconnected
Struggle with relationships, intimacy, or communication
Notice patterns of reactivity, withdrawal, or shame
Are navigating life transitions, parenting, or career pressure
Want deeper connection, not just coping strategies
The group is based in Boulder and open to men living anywhere in Colorado.
Requirements to join
Because experiential group therapy is a powerful relational process, the following help maintain safety and effectiveness:
Ongoing individual therapy (weekly or biweekly) with me or another therapist
Consistent attendance to support group cohesion
A willingness to engage honestly and respectfully
Substance Use:
Men with a history of substance use disorder must have a minimum of 6 months of sobriety prior to joining.
How to join The Men’s Connection Project?
Joining begins with a free 20 minute phone consultation, where I’ll answer your questions and help you understand the group.
The next step is a one-hour individual therapy session with me to:
Assess mutual fit
Clarify expectations
Identify goals for group work
Ensure the group is the right container
This session does not guarantee placement, as group dynamics matter for the success of the work.
Testimonials
“D.J.’s therapy groups have led me to experience some of my deepest and most profound therapy work I have ever done. His care of clients is the most sincere I have experienced in my years of therapy work. He has the ability to listen closely, comprehend fully, and give a perspective that is extremely considerate.”
— Stephen H.
“Working with DJ, both individually and in a group, helped me develop the tools and resources to become a functioning adult in society. DJ helped me find happiness and contentment internally, rather than looking to others for it. Because of him and the tools he shared with me, I am approaching four years sober and have built a fulfilling and happy life.”
- Ryan K.
“Having worked directly with D.J. and having co-facilitated numerous group therapy sessions with him, I can confidently say that D.J. is an incredibly skilled and gifted clinician. He is warm and empathetic, quick-witted and charismatic. D.J. doesn’t shy away from difficult conversations – he will always tell a client what they need to hear (even if it’s not what they want to hear) and does so in a direct yet gentle way in which the client feels supported and empowered.”
— Pat Young, MA, LAC, Landing Program Supervisor at Jaywalker Lodge
“DJ brings knowledge , compassion and care to his groups. His ability to connect with the guys and foster connection amongst others is a true gift. He is a kind, caring , funny guy that makes getting vulnerable a bit less scary. I love when I get the chance to be in a group with him.”
- Jill Krush MS, LPC, NCC, CAC III, Chief Clinical Officer at Choice HouseWhen can I join?
The group is currently meeting and has limited openings.
If you’re interested, reach out and I’ll let you know what’s available and help you decide whether this group feels like a good fit.
“One of the most valuable things we can do to heal one another is to listen to each other’s stories.”
Reach out to learn more
If you’d like more information about The Men’s Connection project, click the button below and fill out the form. I’ll be in touch to schedule your free 20 minute intro call.